Saturday, April 6, 2013

The Alternative Bride


Are you considered “the alternative bride” in your family?  If you are anything like me, this may be the perfect description for you.  I didn’t want a bright white dress, and I certainly didn’t want to get married in a church.  I could tell my family was quite surprised by some of my personal choices.  When I announced that I was going to have my wedding in the middle of a museum, they were shocked.  Though they quickly got used to the idea, the dress debate was another topic of concern for my mother. 
            I love to crochet.  It is my favorite hobby.  Not only do I crochet to pass time, I also love to make gifts for friends and family.  I wanted to display my love for crochet in some way, so I took it upon myself to look for crochet dress patterns.  The alternative bride would probably do anything in their power to make sure that this dream became a reality.  I, on the other hand, have difficulty even making sure all of the household work is complete with a two-year-old to raise and my spoiled fiancĂ© never lifting a finger.  That is the way we like to run our household.  As alternative as I am, some are surprised to find that I convey the 1950’s housewife approach to family life.  Needless to say, the dress quickly became an overwhelming project that seemed to never end.  I went dress shopping with my sister and mother, and I was able to find a dress that was modern with just enough vintage flare for me to fall in love with it.  After this change of mind, I still didn’t give up hope of displaying my crocheting love and talents.
A Bouquet for the Alternative Bride
            I realized that a crochet flower was something I could simply make in under a half hour.  I began making my crochet bouquets.  After completing the three needed for my own wedding, I was addicted to constructing these works of art.  I decided to open an Etsy store to share my creations with others that may be considered the alternative bride of their family.  You can custom order your own bouquets and boutonnieres here.